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Confidence Is Not a Feeling You Wait For

Confidence Is Not a Feeling You Wait For

Confidence Is Not a Feeling You Wait ForKathryn Dunn
Published on: 04/10/2026

You're waiting to feel like a woman who'd just go. That feeling is a receipt. It gets handed to you afterwards, and it's made out of the afternoon itself.

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It's Okay To Be Careful

It's Okay To Be Careful

It's Okay To Be CarefulKathryn Dunn
Published on: 09/08/2026

Somebody said it about you recently, kindly, over lunch. Oh, she will not, she is careful. You smiled and agreed, and something very small went past you at the same moment.

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